I’m sorry that I must object, but I find it offensive that a child should be referred to as a “tzaar”. Yes, I understand the parents divorced. But a child referred to as a “tzaar”?? A child is always a beautiful innocent neshama and he or she should live ad meah v’esrim shana. Please, please be happy for the birth of a child, even in a case of divorce. Would either parent ever tell the child at some point what a “tzaar” his birth was?? Or how regrettable it was that he was born?? Of course not. Because it isn’t.
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