Another name – Oh the feelings were mutual -we both wanted to keep trying! But her “friends” and some of her family kept pushing. She wasn’t strong enough to reject that kind of pressure.
I’m probably the first to say this about an ex, but I actually don’t know if I was subjected to the same thing – of her almost daily manipulation that she got, if I would be able to withstand it. I just am wondering why no male ever pushed me that way?
One thing I will say -these women aren’t in the category of “Noshim Tzidkoneyus”! Now esp. during the three weeks, we need the Noshim Tzidkoneyus to take over. Chazal say because of Noshim Tzidkoneyus we will go out of Golus.
There is way too much LH and even more than LH, there is Motzay Shem Ra, which I believe is one of the main causes of divorce!