<The girls still have the majority of the waiting to be asked out. The boys generally are the ones getting all the profiles (sent to their moms), and it’s like Baskin-Robbins all over for them.>
Depends which circles you are talking about. There are more girls who want a boy in learning than there are boys who want to be in learning. No shock there, it’s harder to be something than to want something.
In those circles, the boys have the lists. In many other groups, MO, BTs, older singles, boys who have the sense to know they need a parnassah, there the men don’t have such lists, some can’t get a date at all.