DY – you were making assumptions that my case was not comparable to the lady with the sick child without knowing the details of the case despite the fact that I (who obviously do know the details) had said that I thought it might be comparable. That is being judgmental.
I had specifically said that I couldn’t present all the details. Perhaps that wasn’t clear and you thought you had all the details and that’s why you said what you did?
Again, I can’t go into the details, but it had nothing to do with time management. I can’t go into the details because it is too personal.
“See, your trying to say you were really an oines is best saved for your posek.”
I wasn’t asking you to posken. I was simply saying that it’s possible that I was an oines and I would need to ask a sheilah.