and yet, dovrosenbaum, in too many parts of our community, how many would be ok with a shidduch between their child and the most amazing BT or geir?
Support them but don’t ch’v marry them seems to be a common attitude. I’ve heard it, seen it, encountered it among my ffb communities, friends and family both in the chareidi and MO world.
What’s the point of half baked “support” if one is going to keep them at a distance?