“In this case I agree with BoysWork.”
Thank you, Meno. I would like to add some additional advice. When my son was looking for a shidduch, the last people I would call are the references on the resume. Nobody will post a reference that will say something negative. Thankfully, he met his zivug on his own. The ribbono shel olam was the shadchan. I don’t understand this meshigas that if a guy and girl meet on their own, you need to kasher it by getting a shadchan to launder it. Some practices are just too stupid for words. And most important, look for middos above and beyond everything else. Sadly, this is very lacking in todays generation.
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