@Joseph I suspected I inspired the start of this particular thread, and now I see you kindly wrote me a post to confirm it, I’m honored. In any case my previous statement still stands and of course I respect any authentic Torah source.
But I’m sure you must realize that Chachmei Yisrael always looked out for the kovod of Bnos Yisrael as proved by the motivation behind the ksuba, the reason why they established that weddings should happen on days that avoided the decree of the evil Romans, as detailed in gemara. Yet your posts come across as denigrating Bnos Yisrael. I’m sure with further learning into the underlying dynamics as detailed above, you will come to the same understanding as our holy chachamim and rabbanim throughout the generations.