@sechelhayashar- “What a respectful way to talk to a woman. Or any person.”
Stop giving an excuse that chabadshlucha is a woman. Everyone has an equal opportunity to speak and is treated as such man/woman. Besides she is obviously not in this alone. She already stated at least once that she asked her husband and he could/couldnt find an answer. We arent dumb she isnt fighting alone so stop using the woman card whenever you feel she is outmatched.