“We don’t face communal/ familial ostracism etc.”
You’re still missing the point people are making with that accusation. Bringing Chabad’s relationship with chilonim as a proof doesn’t help you. As everyone can plainly see from this thread, Chabad’s ability to relate with other groups of frum yidden is non-existent. Chabad is definitively separate from the rest of the frum community; you can chose to blame whichever side you like for that, but it’s the reality. Case and point, you just admitted that your own parents are/were Litvish, yet you have a very low understanding of the Litvish world. You said earlier that you like the opportunity the CR gives to be educated about Litvish shittas; how can it be that you need the CR for that when your own parents are Litvaks? Did you just cut off all contact with them?
Finally, in full fairness, I’m glad you finally admitted your approach to meshichism. I will not ask you to expound any further on that, as it seems we got our answer. I know that shluchim are not supposed to talk about/admit to these things, so thank you for breaking protocol for our benefit.