CS for your response to Yeshiva Rockstar:
What you’re implying is that if it were “extreme 2,” it would be OK that the shliach said it? The point was not that he said something offensive; it’s that he actually believed something like that.
Also, even if it were “extreme 2,” I would say there was context to the context. On this thread, for example, it feels like the only way to get straight-forward, honest answers out of you people is to let it get to the point where you get angry at us. Otherwise, we keep getting 5 page essays that don’t answer our questions. Your shluchus dodging techniques are what is escalating the arguments, not dampening them.