“Why is “Chabad Light” our problem, while “Modern Orthodox” is not yours?”
Bingo. He got my point. I wasn’t trying to give a defense for Chabad or any tznius problem. It’s just that that argument has always been a dead point for 2 reasons:
1) Claiming minhag Chabad has abjectly worse tznius than minhag Ashkenaz can only be accomplished by taking a selective census that includes Chabad Light for Chabad, but only includes the frummiest of Litvaks for us.
2) Claiming that Williamsburg chassidim are more tznius than Chabad might be true, but the Chabadniks haven’t really seemed to deny that. So, what point is trying to be reached? Admittedly, I haven’t read most of the posts about this thoroughly.