Life, Judaism, and Mitzvot aren’t always easy.
There’s a problem when someone simply states a halacha or an idea and it’s considered bashing.
I know it’s not easy, and if you want maybe we can open a thread on chizuk in this area. I do know that the more I learned about WHY I am doing this and WHERE tzniyut really comes from, it made it easier. Clarity always helps give MORE chizuk.
I don’t simply “understand”. I’m a young single woman who is just like you, who has a yetzer hara, wants to be pretty, but also wants to do ratzon hashem.