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daas- firstly, I got married when I was 22, almost 23. So there’s hope 🙂
Also, I couldn’t help but notice your post on the thread about pictures and shidduchim- you might be passing up your bashert that way. Boys are VERY DIFFERENT in real life. Trust me! I know this from my own experience.
A boy that you would find very attractive in real life might not be photogenic.
If you hear good things about the boy, just go out. Don’t ask for a picture.
That being said, I agree that shidduchim is very hard for single girls in today’s gen. I know lots of nice girls who are 23, 24, 25 and older. It has nothing to do with you personally! It’s the curse of today’s generation and Hashem is the only One Who decides when each person gets married.
Just keep davening to Him and iy’h you should find the right one in the right time.
I hope to hear good news from you soon.