Always_Ask_Questions,
“Note the differences between my examples and yours”
My purpose in bringing that story was to show that we do not pasken from stories. That is not how Judaism works. You are not the rabbis in your stories, and your situation is not like theirs. Also, I believe you are misapplying the message of those stories you’ve brought. The strong reaction from the rabbis regarding someone asking a shaila when there is a safek pikuach nefesh is to teach us to never delay in acting when there is a safek pikuach nefesh. The message is NOT that shailos are to be avoided when possible in all matters.
“This is straight halakhic reasoning.”
No it’s not. It’s not even close.
“how did Bolshevik coup in Petersburg happen in Moscow, and why did some Bolsheviks went after Jews on that day instead of going after the Provisional government as they were supposed to?”
I was recalling the story from memory, so the specific details may not have been correct. Whatever. I’m not the one trying to pasken from a story.