Reply To: Does a convert adopted by frum parents have a bashert?

Hashem sees the future. If someone is a ger, Hashem knew he will become a ger and create a bashert for him.
And everyone marries their bashert. If you think someone is your bashert but you don’t end up marrying them, then they were not actually your bashert. Bashert means the one who you will marry. Hashem will lead you there.