You have been obssessed about others taking and spending. You can’t let go of it and it is really creepy. If it isn’t hate based, then explain it already.
Your rationalization is that the halacha is that you cannot accept charity, but you are the only one who has deemed it charity. The government doesn’t and the administrators who run the welfare offices don’t. So you made up a “fact” in order to crucify a group according to the laws around it. So let me try taking a page out of your book and do the same. I know you have claimed you homeschool, which of course is truancy and neglect. As far as I know being a criminal is kneged Torah as is child neglect. How do you justify deliberate child neglect and criminal behavior regarding your children?
And to further my point, any time someone mentions school, I may bring up the fact that there are people who homeschool despite it being a crime and negligent. If I say it enough maybe it can be true.
“It did not occur to me to continue telling the office that I can’t find a job.”
why bring this up? Are you now insinuating that someone else did do that? Is that just more motzei shem rah?