American; I don’t see anything hateful about discussing modern day wackiness in chabad.
I think it’s hateful to disparage chasidim or any other group in klal yisroel which is following a mesorah. The last rebbe changed chabads mssorah drastically, and was criticized, even discounted ny many gedolim; that isn’t the case for other chasidim 50 years past the original hisnagdus. Everyone else pretty much made peace at that point.