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No the reason fat girls and short boys don’t stand a chance cuz we don’t let people meet naturally. Controlling how people meet each other is just pathetic. We live in a real world. And with the right values a person can meet whoever they want to marry on their own. Who makes shidduchjn not us. G-d does. This insane control creates a society hat’s so stuck in its box there’s no natural communal life that goes on just each person stuck in their own little is located world. Adults need to meet adults to create communal life. Even if your not marrying someone. This resume and bs gatts go..can we bring back biblical marriages where people just find someone they like and that’s it. Instead of this horrid FBI investigations and lack of respect for people. Disgusting it’s so sad what we have come to and yet we don’t care. Only care how much we control things. What’s that tu baav thing they did in biblical times? Time to bring that back. Let the men and the woman choose their own partners like nature intended. This entire system is bs