none2: weight loss everyone is different and every person has value.
of course. But given weight statistics of the population, we can conclude that a large portion of the population is not in control of their urges or do not care about their health and marriage prospects. Same goes for men who have no job prospects. A specific person might have his own reasons, but statistically speaking, they do not care about supporting their families or expect government, whether zionist or goyishe, to take care of them. Short men are somewhat different, unless their parents starved them. Some people anecdotally reported seeing much shorter population in Jewish enclaves, possibly due to diet and lack of vitamin D, but as it would affect both boys and girls, this might not be a source for a shidduch problem.