Also amom. Please. I do not know one person that doesn’t feel humiliated by the shidduch system. Not. One .person. And nobody says anything I’m sorry but I’m not going to sit on the fence and I’m sorry I’m not going to say this kindly or lightly or without “hurt” this is something that actually affects many people on a very deep level and if that makes me sound ,”hurt” why do you care? If a person doesn’t have emotions and doesn’t get angry at injustice what are you human for. Oh I’m so sorry that I sound so hurt. Go fly me a kite. Maybe I’m taking on collectively the advert cruelty this has on so many people. Maybe I carry collectively this hurt and rage because I actually bother to say something. The system needs to change sorry and if it means I sound ‘hurt” when I say it. Too bad on you.
