I know someone who’s seen multitudes of different weddings, a vort with cake and shnapps, a wedding outside on a property (there was tons of people there) a wedding in a shul, and so many others. They told me that nobody looked at them weirdly or oddly everyone was ecstatic for the couple. I think what you might need to do is change your friends and your surroundings to people who will actually accept you and your circumstances.
Cuz those are not good company
