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May 5, 2009 3:29 am at 3:29 am
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oomis
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You know what the REAL bottom line is? The fact that there are people on this forum trying to defend the indefensible, and rationalizing that 30 years of marriage to someone (if you are lucky) is better than none, even if at the end of that 30 years, the spouse is dying an agonizingly painful, slow death, and his wife and children (who may or may not also have been physically affected by his filthy habit)have to watch it happen. That is a selfish and self-indulgent way of looking at this issue. It is not only about the smoker. And that is what the smoker refuses to face. Until it is too late, that is.