Unfortunatly, it is sometimes the MILs who cause shalom bayis problems between the couple. MILs should know that their daughter has married and is out of the house- let her start her own house without your every word being law! She is grown up and should be allowed to run her house HER WAY. I know this happened to someone I know. Their MIL cause such issues between the boy’s family from the engagement and on. She wouldnt let the son run the house according to his family’s minhagim (which is the way it should be except the candles). There is such shalom bayis problems between the couple…
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