bein_hasdorim said It should be disscussed w/ an experienced mentor. Also talking with a “real” close friend that is 100% impartial, might help put thing in perspective.
I totally agree with this, but would add that your experienced mentor or friend should be a happily married person or a Rav or Rebbitzin. Another single person can not give you the proper perspective on what they themselves have not experienced. And if the person is divorced or not happily married, they will possibly give you a skewed perspective on marriage.
But it is important to have a person to be able to listen to you and to give you proper advice.