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mod-80; As i said before it’s not a problem to get a Rav to say anything these days, even if I’ll bring the biggest Poiskei Hador to give a live Shiur saying 1 thing, 100 others bring their own Rav to say otherwise, even if Moisheh Rabbeinu would say Ossur, someone will say he’s to old & doesn’t remember, V’ho Raayoh, plenty have been brought down by others (& I have to compliment them, especially Joseph), and we still have to bring a Rav, even the Memrois of the G’moro were not enough, so maybe I’ll do something I said I will not do albeit only a bit, (bring down what & where it says). 1) Even Hoezer Siman 21 S’if 7 Ein Shoialin Bishloim Isho K’lal Afilu Al Y’dei Sh’liach “V’afilu Al Y’dei Baloh” V’osur Lishloiach Lo Divrei Sh’loimim, even sending her the greeting is forbidden! 2) G’moroh Yuma 74: Omar Raish Lokish etc. & Rambam Hilchois T’shuvoh 4 Uk’var Kosvu Horishoinim, where you can see how the Yetzer has people do things that are not explicitly Osur Kdai Sheloi Y’hei Liboi Noikfoi V’yachazir Bit’shuvoh. 3) Maseches Kalloh 1 Omar R’ Elozor Kol Hshoiseh, even unintetionally. 4) G’moro Nidoh 13. Kol Hameivi….Ein Machnisin Oisoi Lim’chitzosoi Shel HKB”H & the Rambam explains V’im Poga B’machashovoh Chetoi Godoil B’harbeh 5) Chinuch 188 even if he knows he will not faulter. 6)Y’rushalmi B’rochois P’1 H’8 Omar HKB”H Im At Uhiv Liboch V’einoch Ano Yodaano D’at Dili, what A Z’chus & S’char 7) Midrash Shir Hashirim 3, 13 T’nino B’shem R’ Doiso, ….Omar Hakodoish Boruch Hu Mi Shehu Oimeid B’yetzer Shel Haznus Maaloh Ani Olov K’ilu Oimeid Bishteihem (including S’char for A”Z which is not around anymore & there is no other way to get S’char for it) 8) G’moro Makois 23: R’ Shimoin Bar Rebi….Gezel V’aroyois….Hapoiresh Meihem…..Sheyizkeh Loi U’l’doiroisov…..Ad Soif Kol Hadoirois. I can go on & on, on the Isurim,on the Oineshim, & on the S’char, but I think I’ve said enough V’idoch Pirusho Zil G’moir. As to a Psak, obviously The Chasidishe are a given that it’s Osur or most here might not care, as for Litvish & Y’shivish would a P’sak from a Godoil like R’ Belsky count? If yes, when I come back from Asia next week I’ll meet him right away. ps. I might be off on “some” of the words qouted, all though I tried to qoute as much as possible verbaitim, V’Hashem Hatoiv Y’chaper. I still love each one of you!