To Joseph: I’m not sure I understand. What is the proper term for a woman whose husband is putting her through gehenom and withholding a get? Sounds like the man’s the one who is being mored (rebelling?!?!). Please understand when you use such terms that with my BY and sem background I don’t have grounding in gemara so unless you carefully explain I might conclude that you are misusing the terminology.
And a woman with a PhD – G-d forbid? So much for Rebbetzin Grunfeld.