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February 19, 2009 1:25 am at 1:25 am
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not answering back when someone insults/hurts/embarrasses you
i have a question on this. i understand i should not lash out immediately when hurt. but often someone will do something that hurts me and they don’t realize it. am i supposed to just “get over it” or is it the right thing to explain what bothers me? i try to forgive, but if i dont tell them, they may do it again to me or to others that it may hurt.