I can’t believe I missed this thread! I agree with jax. It’s kind of hypocritical
to sit here doing something you claim is problematic while actually doing so.
I would like to ask how it’s is even shayich to flirt in the CR. The main point of al tarbeh siycha im Haishao, is because of what it will lead to. In live interaction with people things tend to build and one thing leads to another. This is a serious problem.
chatting with someone in the CR, is not building, or going anywhere.
When talking for real, the person says his comment appropriate or not and it’s gone.
He gambles to accept the results if it was appreciated, or not.
Here in the CR it is
1)Cut by our wonderful moderators,
2)known that the comment is written in text & will not disappear after one writes it.
This keeps one further in check to consider ones words.
I have never seen any flirting going on here.
some person says a joke, gets an lol! that’s it. or maybe a wink ;-).
Thats it. The guy in the pizza shop near me,
either gives winks to all the women shoppers, or has a serious twitching disorder.
So It’s assur to go buy pizza?
One can never even meet anyone, or give personal info, even l’sheim mitzvah in the CR,
for it is not tolerated, and for good reason. After mentioning all this I conclude,
as my friend jax so eloquently put it.. stop posting if you have an issue!