You are correct. On the micro level each person is a individual and has to be dealt as such.
HOWEVER, if people want to know why there is such a imbalance of numbers in the dating scene that is primarily due to age gap. In addition such a imbalance of numbers creates untold havoc aside from the girls having minimal dating opportunities. It is not good for the boys either. Having to many choices is not always a good thing, but I’ll stop here.