OK, here is a dating tip. Make a list of pareve topics at home. Study that list so YOU know what is proper and what is not. If there is a lull in the conversation that is too long or uncomfortable you can choose a topic from your home list and ask a question to continue. Be prepared so you don’t feel awkward or seem awkward.
OK, now for the topics. Of course there is weather, family, school/yeshiva stories, best part of your day, favorite color, favorite food, favorite sport, travel, family vacation, hobbies, etc.
THE most important things to remember on a date is:
Put your best foot forward
Be polite, mind your manners
Be well groomed
Listen when your date speaks, don’t interrupt; take turns speaking and pay attention
Don’t make it all about you. Don’t talk money, cars, real estate…..keep your ego in check.
It is not a job interview. You don’t have to blurt out everything about yourself on the first date. Save something for later.