There are varieties of various ways to things and not one set standard.
When it comes to whether something is right or wrong, it is quite black and white.
What ‘looks’ grey only looks that way to someone who does not know how to separate out the good from the bad sincve it all mixed these days.
But just like grey picture in a newspaper is made up of black dots on a white background and the grey is darkler or lighter depending on how many black dots there are per square inch so to the apparant grey in right vs wrong, is really make of black and white fine details all mixed in together.
There may be 20 different routes to get from Brooklyn to southern New Jersey and it is not wrong to drive there but it is wrong to drive there over the speed limit and certainly wrong to steal a car to drive there.
Someone might say “what if it’s ife and death and stealing a car is the only to save the life”.
Well what if the car that was stolen was rushing organs to the airport to fly to someone who needed a transplant in Pennsylvania and unless those organs got there in an hour, they would spoil and be useless and the patient would die?
Obviously stealing is wrong, no matter how you slice it.
Right and wrong are clearly black and white.