I met my husband because Hashem sent him into my place of work at the right time for me to meet him. There was no human shadchan, I saw a real mensch who was ehrliche and aidel, and when he asked me out I agreed. We are married almost 33 years, and if you think that’s crazy, then that is your privilege. It is not the first nor the last time that people meet each other and realize they are right for each other, without anyone else interfering. Just because something is not done the way you are used to doing it, is not reason enough to call it “absolutely crazy.” These two young people met each other because she had a blowout on the side of the road and couldn’t change her tire. She saw a young man who was willing to stop and take the time to help a female in distress. How many frum guys might have stopped by a female on the road and continued to drive? None of us should ever be so sure of ourselves that we do not believe that Hashem makes things happen HIS way, for a reason.
Had Moshe Rabbeinu not seen the Mitzri beating a Jew and killed him, which resulted in his being forced to flee for his life, he would never have found Tzipporah at the well in Midian. If Yaakov and Esav had not had their issues between them, Yaakov would have never left his home and found the mothers of Klal Yisroel. Who was the shadchan for Rabbi Akiva and Rachel? Certainly not Yenta, the Matchmaker! Not everything that you do not hold by, is crazy. it is just a different venue.