Cheerful: Please be strong and do not give in to peer or family pressure to marry who THEY think you should marry. YOU are the only one who can know who is for you. And YOU will be the one to live with that person.
Why is it so terrible to look for someone who is a baal middos, an ehrliche Yid, but serves Hashem by working and being koveah itim laTorah?
You must tell your parents to please look for the type of person YOU NEED! I really feel for you. May the Ribono shel olam, the One who is m’shadaich all shidduchim, send you your zivug hagun b’karov!