So what about women going to spend the evening with friends at a restaurant stam a zoi, not for an occasion, is this mutter too?
It’s important to get out occasionaly, but some women are forever frequenting resturaunts a few times a weeks. That’s different than getting together once in a while with freinds. The middle road of everything is the best.
The same goes for those LIVING in malls or other shopping areas. For those that enjoy shopping and finding metzias and occasionaly do so (maybe more frequently before Yom Tov) and come home revitalized with their fabulous finds (“Husband look what I found! I found a skirt for Daughter for $10! Isn’t it gorgeous? Look the original price was $60! And I also found a matching top for $5!” Husband tries to look interested but isn’t succesful) there’s nothing wrong with that. But for a woman to constantly live in shopping places and frequent them every other day makes her a woman who is not living with the knowledge that “kol kevuda bas melech penima”.