oomis – that’s why I said there’s a difference. I have friends who are MO and they are Shomer Shabbos and everything. But I also know people who, I guess you wouldn’t call them frum then, that won’t drive but watch TV. It’s the sad truth. What would you call them?
I do NOT think that’s normal for regular MO people.
And from the way you describe yourself, I wouldn’t consider you MO from the way you just described yourself. I would consider you normal. So labels are all a matter of perspective.