And you know this how, exactly?
How would I know this? Like I know a lot of things. Open your eyes and you’ll see as well.
What circles of boys and girls have you moved about in freely? I have myself been in such circles, and my daughters go to singles weekends in such circles, and NOTHING bad ore ven remotely bad has EVER happened,
I’m sure you transmitted your values to your children and also you’ve had much siyatta dishmaya and everything worked out great.
…and it is kind of loshon hara for anyone to say differently with no basis, just because their own hashkafa does not hold by this. Yes, SOME mixed groups of kids MIGHT have a problem (they would under any cicrumstance), but modern Yeshivish kids know proper behavior and are very respectful of frum boundaries.
Not everything that you disagree with is l”h. I have not named any group, and the only “sin” I did was the first time around I did write the word “group”. And btw, if there were no problems within that group why did people assume I spoke about MO? People made the assumption on their own. But in any case, they were right I shouldn’t have written the word “group”.
There is plenty of heartbreak potential in all shidduchim, no matter how they are made
I didn’t say otherwise. I only wanted to point out that it’s not all fine and dandy your way either.