Reply To: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim

PBA:

Regarding your three points.

1. it would have a tremendous impact on the musical chairs becuase People/Shadchanim would not set up “bad ideas” they would naturally focus on the ones where they would be appreciated and recognized. This concept has and is being tested with tremendous results.

2 is achievable and intially it would start with communities/orgs/schools doing it on behalf of the singles. it is a very cost effective program as they only pay for results produced.

3. your concern for downside is not merited becuase so long as communities are doing it there is no “pressure” on the individual to take it into account as to whether to go ahead with the next date. Addtionally the comminities/orgs/schools can set guidlines that it only offers it for girls who are 20+.