Reply To: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim

BP Totty: please re-read the data (it will be re-printed this week on the back page of the Flatbush Jewish Journal). The data on boys from similar families who started dating at the same time (5-10 years ago) are 3% still single, the girls 13% still single.

However, as i have requested previously I ask not to debate the existence of the musical chairs phenomena in this thread. If you don’t agree/believe/accept-fine. The goal of this thread is to productively suggest,debate, fine tune various suggestions for dealing with that situation. If you feel it doesn’t exist, feel free to ignore.