popa_bar_abba:
To clarify:
If an FFB marries a BT;
then after the wedding, is the BT prepared to:
1) Not attend “conservative” or “reform” weddings, bar-mitzvahs, and bas-mitzvahs, etc. made by the BT’s non-Frum family (as their “rabbis” (and especially “gay” or women rabbis) are not rabbis, a double-ring ceremony is not a Jewish ceremony, and there is mixed seating and immodest dress and men and women dancing together to non-Jewish music), etc.) ?
2) Not attend C”V the marriage of a Jew to a non-Jew, if someone in the BT’s non-Frum family decides to C”V marry a non-Jew?
3) Not enter a “conservative” or “reform” temple, if that’s where the BT’s non-Frum family prays?
4) Not eat in a BT’s non-Frum family’s non-Kosher home?
5) Insist that that the BT’s non-Frum family dress and behave according to the Torah’s standards of Tznius, when the BT and his/her FFB spouse make a Seudas Mitzvah (wedding, bar-mitzvah, etc.) ?
So is the BT prepared to do all of the above?
If not, why should an FFB want to marry you?
That’s as clear as I can make it.