please.
please.
people – i think there’s no reason for this conversation. meaning:
1) a lot of what’s being said can be VERY VERY hurtful to readers. really. how do you think a ger/giyores or a child of one feels when he sees “are you prepared to marry a ger.”
2)many FFB’s also have not frum relatives, at least nowadays. and therefore have to deal with family issues anyway.
3)it’s all irrevelevant anyway, being that Hashem makes shidduchim, and what will happen will be what will happen in any case, no matter what we do or don’t do to remedy or ruin the situation.
4) i’m a child of a BT and a giyores. having said that – chavivin yesurin, as rabbi akiva says. it’s a kappara for avonos every time s/o throws another barb at you for being ‘less than quality.’
for the complaint part of this – as of now i haven’t seen anyone for like ten months now, and you know what? i’m not even old. so there.
(chavivin yissurin – i shouldn’t complain 🙂 )