Wow! First of all this thread is about Shidduchim for kids of BT’s not marrying BT’s themselves.
Second of all if you don’t want to marry a BT, fine don’t but BT’s are not 2nd rate citizens.
3rd of all if you anyways are talking about all the hardships that marrying a BT involves, why don’t you actually ask someone who is married to one and is involved themselves. And if you don’t want to live that kind of life, then don’t, no one is forcing you.
4th – for those who said BT kids go off more than FFB kids. I would think that is not true. Of all the kids I know that are OTD, they come from FFB homes and I don’t know one kid from a BT who is off. If a kid has a question about Torah and G-d and anything, the BT asked it and knows the answers so can give them to their kids. Whereas in a FFB home the parents for the most part probably don’t know the answers and yell at the kid for asking.
And I agree with emoticon613 – some of those comments that people made are hurtful. Their is no point in saying them.