Sacriledge-
I want to reiterate that I don’t mean to be condescending; I think this is a subject that you should not look at like a lulav or a mezuzah or if you should daven mincha twice. The pure halachic parameters are murky, and untzinius to discuss publicly.
The question should be – what will make a better person? A better eved Hashem, a better (future) wife & mother to raise Yareh Shamayim and Avedey Hashem.
Exact details parameters should be found from another -competent – woman; because if even if you would have clear Halachos – so much would be missing –
“logic is the beginning of wisdom, not the end” (Commander Spock).