Aries, please don’t be so upset. Some people seem to enjoy stirring up the hornets’ nest – until they get stung, too. I get what you are saying. I have my own issues with people who hide behind the title “Rabbi” or “Yeshivah” and believe that somehow it confers automatic sainthood on both. However, because I might have an issue with a specific rabbi or specific yeshivah, does not mean I will tar all of them with the same brush. And I know that you do not, either, though some people here might abrasively and wrongfully suggest otherwise.
I have an ongoing problem with a major halachic breach on the part of a “choshuvah place and person,” which is robbing me of my sleep and health. My husband and I have tried respectfully to resolve this problem, but the chutzpah of the parties involved has made it impossible. I can no longer look at someone whom I once held in VERY high esteem, knowing that though well aware of what is being done at his behest, he is perfectly content to let it be done, taking no steps whatsoever to rectify a situation which is both against halacha AND city law. Fortunately, I will not go OTD over this, but how many people HAVE gone OTD when seriously disillusioned by the hypocrisy they observe in so-called frum people who DO know better?