Popa, there is nothing wrong with a man wanting an attractive wife. Nor is there something wrong with a woman wanting an attractive husband.
There is something wrong when its the primary importance to the person. I know a man who is now in his 40s. A decent looking guy with a decent job. Interesting, fairly funny…a good catch. BUT. When you asked him what he was looking for, his list was preposterous. He wanted someone tall, thin, but athletic thin but not too muscular, preferably a natural blond woman with light eyes….his list went on and on. He never even got to the part about what she should be like.
That’s wrong.