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Sac
Wow, that would make it even more awkward lol
ouch! “just another sanchez pb-aholic!!!!”
popa…i cant stop laughing at all ur posts…im gonna get fired because my boss knows there is nothing funny about accounting!!!
im not sure if ur posing a serious dilemma or just mocking the system?
please dont encourage him
If boys really cared about looks they would go out with every girl instead of judging her by a motionless picture.
The problem is that once a boy sees a picture of an average girl he will most likely say she is not my type and wont give her a chance. Even though everyone can agree that pictures are not very accurate representation of looks. And yes sometimes a picture might even look better than the person looks on daily basis but sometimes worse either way its not a fair way to judge looks.
cshapiro and popa (if hes single)!!!
“And of course it in not tznius. It is dating, the whole thing is not tznius.”
popa: Are you kidding?? There is no way she can dress “not tznius” on a date.
wow sac im insulted….that u dont think i could do better….lol
Popa-
“I still disagree. I think she should dress as nicely as she would dress if going out with her husband.”
I agree with that. I meant she maybe should not dress like she would if she was staying inside with her husband…
dont worry- once your married your wife will make you feel plenty attracted…
cshapiro
Whats wrong with popa? He is;
1 Jewish
2 A man
3 Alive
What more can you ask for?
(Though I cant verify any of the things I just said)
Come on pb….by now u shud know what im looking for…
cshapiro
So youll go out with eli manning intead of popa
cshapiro
How do you know he isnt a football player?
charliehall: Yes, but there was a homiletical point there.
cshapiro
And even if he is the water boy or cheerleader, he still gets to *gasp* breathe the same air that they do!
pb…i would but polygamy is not legal in this country
sac, i guess id need a pic then….not taking any chances this time!!! :))
popa
Send a pic to cshapiro.
cshapiro
lol Well then your up a creek. I guess your going to have to settle for Popa. I mean its either popa or WIY…
Girls should always dress nicely.
Boys should always dress nicely.
Both genders should always present themselves in a neat, hygienic, and attractive way. To do otherwise is to say, “Hashem, I do not give two cents for the face or body You gave me. People can take me or leave me.”
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look nice or wanting to be with someone who appeals to you. I would repeat that line, but I am too lazy to type it again.You knwo what – I will, anyway. There is nothing wrong with wanting to look nice or wanting to be with someone who appeals to you.
For some reason I was always under the impression that popa was 45 yr old guy…
popa, you’re single. Don’t kid us, you gave that away long ago. Here are some of the lesser proofs from your threads:
Sure nothing is conclusive, but one needn’t be a rocket scientist to figure this out!
lol pb i dont settle….my 3 must haves are out there…just waiting around for mr perfect to come knocking on my door :)))
as my dear grandmother once wisely said to me, “It is better to be attractive, healthy and rich than ugly, poor and sick.”
Though it is almost 35 years since she told me this, it still rings true today.
cshapiro
money, looks, and yichus?
The problem I have with the initial premise is NOT that girls shouldn’t put their best feet forward – I think most if not all women feel good when they maximize their assets – but that girls (and women) are being held to some arbitrary artificial standard of beauty.
There are women who are (some of you may need to sit down for this) ten pounds overweight who are beautiful.
Some women may favor one look over an another.
Some women can’t wear heels. Get over it.
I could keep going.
Last week’s Hamodia magazine had a great story: a young woman goes to the shadchan after having sent her a photo for the file. She was pretty pumped about the photo, having made some effort for it. So she finds the shadchan in tears – tears! – because she didn’t have anyone pretty enough for the best catch (sic) she had. And poor, poor guy. What was the shadchan doing wrong? Did she need to get a better quality meat in her stable? Yes, that was the story (though that last sentence was mine, but it was clearly said in not so many words).
So this is where we’re coming from.
FWIW, I’ve been married for a while. No sour grapes. One case of a child who wasn’t anorexic enough for someone.
actually pb rich, gorgeous football player….so yes u got it!!!
cshapiro
So who are you gonna date then?
Tom brady of course….my friend txted him my number and I know a couple of rabbis who will do an orthodox conversion for the rite amount of $$$
cshapiro,
Sac just told me that he is married…you snooze you lose! But hey, Popa is still available! Even WIY!;-)
Pb, wiy is reserved for sac and popa….to be quite honest idk if anyones good enuf for him…
cshapiro
“and popa….to be quite honest idk if anyones good enuf for him…”
Previous post:
“wow sac im insulted….that u dont think i could do better”
Now, stop beating around the bush… I’ll even pick up the restaurant tab 😉
Cshapiro
I thought popa is a guy….
Ok I got it. Well make a yeshiva world shidduch. Sac will pay for the restaurant bill, just go out with him. If you do, I will go out with Sac.
Popa, there is nothing wrong with a man wanting an attractive wife. Nor is there something wrong with a woman wanting an attractive husband.
There is something wrong when its the primary importance to the person. I know a man who is now in his 40s. A decent looking guy with a decent job. Interesting, fairly funny…a good catch. BUT. When you asked him what he was looking for, his list was preposterous. He wanted someone tall, thin, but athletic thin but not too muscular, preferably a natural blond woman with light eyes….his list went on and on. He never even got to the part about what she should be like.
That’s wrong.
Sac
Just to warn you…They probably will pick the most expensive place, so you may have to hold off on buying those shoes!
Sac
Just to warn you…They probably will pick the most expensive place, so you may have to hold off on buying those shoes!
i knew it…pb is crushing on sac….but no thanks im not making deals with u…i mean how much would u pay me to go out with him??? enough for that down payment ???? lol
cshapiro
Darn! You caught on;) But i dont know if Sac is “good enough” for me;)She never said yes….
oh dont worry pb shes just playing hard to get….i think u should def make a move!!! go for it!!!
PB
WOW, w no picture…
Sac:
Go to your local grocery store…
Dunno
But then she will see that I am the janitor there, and will say no. lol jk I’m on the shelf.
dunno
I meant PB is so willing w/o seeing a picture of me…
Sac:
Then be happy he’s being one of “those guys” and go out 🙂
Come on guys, we need a CR shidduch!
Sac
Im not “one of those guys” that need it.
But if you want, ask the Mod to send it.
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