I asked this question to a rav who said that it depends on the family. If all the children are products of their home then yes, looking into their brother would be relevant. However, there are so many (if not most) families with children that are self-made to either extreme. I have a friend who’s brother’s going OTD but she is a terrific girl. In such a case, that one brother wouldn’t make a difference (she has many more good brothers).
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