My ex also had/s a similar addiction and I tolerated EVEN that,against my will.But EVERY SINGLE RAV’S advice pointed to ME being at fault somehow!
“Are you thin?” I was!
“Are you ALWAYS accessible?”(Excuse me?)
“Do you ALWAYS talk to him nicely?”
“Could it be he’s out LEARNING IN A DIFFERENT BAIS MEDRASH SOMEWHERE,because YOU make it so stressful for him?”