They fault you for everything.If they don’t fault you,they defend him.
Example:
Me:My husband raises his fist at me when we disagree.
Rav:Did he actually hit you?
Me:No,but it’s pretty scary!
Rav:Well,THIS IS THE WAY A MAN GETS ANGRY.The main thing is he didn’t HIT you.
Another example:
Me:He twisted my wrist.It’s still red.
Rav:Aha…What did you say that made him so upset?
Me:I saw the recorder he’s always taping me on in his pocket,and tried to take it.
Rav:Aha….