eclipse – “My ex also had/s a similar addiction and I tolerated EVEN that,against my will.But EVERY SINGLE RAV’S advice pointed to ME being at fault somehow!”
Wow! I should have had you ex’s Rabbonim. No Rav ever took my side. There were Rabbonim that I didn’t even speak to and were against me. The problem is and knew about this from before is that some Rabbonim are Nogeiah B’dovor. I’ve seen cases like your husband that they protect because of PC and cases like me which my faults are 1 millionth of these guys, they attack.