to really smile – “ur right, BUT internet IS doubly bad because if used in the wrong way, it can affect everything else.”
There is no such thing -an aveira is an aveira. There are plenty of people who speak LH so much; don’t think for a second this isn’t affecting you in many ways. While it’s apparent to everyone when someone looks at bad things, that they are doing something wrong, most people who speak LH don’t even think that they are doing anything wrong. I’ve seen in Mussar Seforim that half the teshuva is realizing that you are doing aveiros; a lot of people speaking LH don’t even have that realization. Your husband realizes his faults and is going to do something about them. I give him a lot of credit!